Why do I feel like my friends are shying away from me?
I try to contact lost friends....ok....not lost friends....but friends I left behind after moving to St. Avanger.
But it seems like they have chosen to ignore me.
Tried talking to a friend on MSN. We used to be in the same dancing group 2 years ago, but we never lost contact. But she just logged off...... hint?
Another one gave me her phone number. I bumped into her in St. Avanger. It had been 3 years since then.
I mean, why give me your phone number when you won't even bother with texting me back?
Did I do something wrong? Did I hurt them....without knowing?
It takes alot of heart to just ignore or stop talking to a lost friend.....whom you really had a good connection with.
I'm starting to panic. It scares me how people can just up and leave.
Hmmm....
Interesting.
Besides, there are 3 types of friends. And I guess I know where they stand.
No wonder I find it difficult befriending girls -___-
black panther
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We are friends..no....??!! and am a girl..:-)
anyway perosnally i think that sometime when we loss touch the connection/chemistry gets lost in trasition with some people..for others no difference is there wats so ever...depends..some friends are meant to be forever, some are meant to be just for a particular point in tim . that just my thought.
ok, i agree with your point that some friends can last forever without talking for months...but it kinda sux cuz i really want them "back" lol.
OOHHHH, sweets, of course we are. <3
awww hugs to u dear...
I can imagine how u must feel. Though I always tell people I have 3 besties, 2 of them live far away & our past seems to be the only thing that holding us together. The other, who lives closer, seems to be ignoring me lately. I try not to let it bother me but with my track record of besties, they don't seem to last as long as I would like. And while I do agree that some friends can go without talking for months and not miss a beat, I like to have someone to talk to about life, go shopping with, and just do some quality girl bonding with.
Just like with your move, my marriage seems to be affecting friendships just like the birth of my children did. Maybe some people are only supposed to be in our lives for certain seasons. This we all know. But it still hurts whenever certain ones don't transition into the new season. I feel ur pain my sister.
On a brighter note, I hope this next season in life brings you fulfilling and lasting bonds of friendship. Hang in there hun.
xoxo,
Dre
PS-Sorry to keep blabbing on and on! lol
thank you, Miss Dre. really needed that. yeah i need a friend i can go window shopping with and gossip with. miss that.
yeah, high hope for next season :D
my dear i guess that's how it is...but don't bother yourself..let them go..
i don;t really befriend girls too .too much drama...because of that i appreciate my guy friends so much.....they are easier to cope with...
Heh! Try not to let it bother you. Maybe try contacting them one more time but if it doesn't work, just move on. It's all good...really!
Adiya
http://thecornershopng.blogspot.com
Girls can be pretty weird -- trust me, I've had my fair share of girl drama over the last few years. What I've taken from all of that is that those who are meant to be your friend, will no matter what happens between you or however many physical miles there are -- a true friend will always reach back out to you.
TheQueenofHearts
Hi Stranger! How are you doing? Sorry about the friends. Sometimes I guess one has to let go and move onto another phase of friendships and experiences. Be happy with those who remain inspite of the good and bad.
p.s. As for me, I am one of the friends missing you :(.
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